As for Si base people hitting my PoLR.. I live with one..
Brother-in-law. This is not a permanent situation. It
can't be.
He's an SLI, one who talks about his adventures in the bathroom during dinner (seriously...diarrhea in HD 3D full definition, no need for cable...
WHILST EATING - which is already a bore). WTF. Not as a joke either, he's dead serious!!! It's THE type of thinking that he occupies himself with. What in the living hell...
He starts talking about his (dis)comfort with whatever (I never remember what he says), no matter what else is going on. He starts whining about how his favorite baseball team lost a game when I am in the middle of talking about the implications of my mental health with someone. He's a fucking trip, I tell ya. He has absolutely ZERO feel for context and timing. Or general decency. The times I wanted to bash his brains in are too numerous to count. (Though this has lessened ever since he got together with his ESE.. just don't ask me how they do it.)
He says he often feels an "angry tension" coming from me when he addresses an 'annoyance' about how my wife (his sister) and I aren't using the shared kitchen 'properly.' No shit Sherlock. I'm holding back all the frustration I have accumulated over the
numerous instances where
he acts like a dickhole. And
his gripe is that the counter is sticky????? FFFFFFFFFFfucking a..
Also, him fucking with the A/C, making his sister wear a sweater inside IN THE SUMMER. My wife tells me she just "did what she had to do" because the living situation is complex with other family related stuff (she doesn't feel comfortable dealing with Fe shit, feels she can't win). So she just went with it. Do what you gotta do. Wore sweaters in the summer because he turns the A/C setting to fucking
Antarctica. He says it's because "he gets hot flashes." LOL I don't care, no one has to wear a sweater in the summer. Shit ain't happening on my watch. Even having to think about this bullshit
ever puts me on edge (fucking with the A/C is not how I like to spend my time..), let alone his unreasonable and selfish bullshit.
I'm happy to say that after some discussions and some passive aggressive nonsense we have come to a somewhat stable agreement. I'm so damn proud that I didn't hit him!
Still, we gotta move...