Learning about the INTp/ESFj Dynamic

[FeloniousFunk]

That does sound more like conflict relationship...How about the things that he says that annoy you or don't agree with your ideas and values in the approach to individuals and society most importantly?

He and I have only been seriously dating for about six weeks, although we've casually known each other for the past 8 years. Our timing simply hadn't been in sync. The biggest area of conflict in which I think we could lock horns is that of my impulsivity and leanings toward indulgence and immediate gratification vs. his frugality, practicality and leanings toward asceticism. This reared its head just this past weekend when I learned we'd left to do something two hours later than we'd originally considered (and at a slightly less ideal time) because "the $5 parking would be free." It's really minor stuff, but we're also very, very early into our relationship.

FF

[Beautiful sky]

He and I have only been seriously dating for about six weeks, although we've casually known each other for the past 8 years. Our timing simply hadn't been in sync. The biggest area of conflict in which I think we could lock horns is that of my impulsivity and leanings toward indulgence and immediate gratification vs. his frugality, practicality and leanings toward asceticism. This reared its head just this past weekend when I learned we'd left to do something two hours later than we'd originally considered (and at a slightly less ideal time) because "the $5 parking would be free."

FF

Lol that's planning ahead, isn't it

Oh that would drive my mom insane.

The frugality will be lessened when he has more money. But still you are not focusing on information exchange. It's not that he's frugal it's that his thinking is linear because he's Ej temperament

[FeloniousFunk]

The frugality will be lessened when he has more money.

Oh, he HAS the money. And it's because he's frugal. And I certainly can't fault him for that.

He retired early; I'll be working for another ten years. Tortoise / Hare


FF

[Beautiful sky]

Oh, he HAS the money. And it's because he's frugal. And I certainly can't fault him for that.

He retired early; I'll be working for another ten years. Tortoise / Hare


FF

Wow isn't that nice. I'll be working all of my life lol