Quote Originally Posted by FeloniousFunk View Post
Greetings, folks . . .

I just joined with the hopes of better understanding the dynamics of an INTP / ENFJ relationship.

I'm on the Coast of Maine and am the INTP in the above relationship (which probably shouldn't be a surprise.)

Looking forward to learning more. Cheers.


FF
Yes, an important difference - well, fairly important. You typo'ed one of those, so if she is ESFj then she is your Conflictor, and ENFj means she is your Supervisor and both are a challenge for you. Well, you would be on more equal footing if she is ESFj... and I know two couples in that exact Conflictor relationship who have survived the long-haul, but its been tough going. It is a challenge, but my idea is that all relationships can work, with rock solid commitment and flexibility and not expecting the other person to take the place of God in your life. Also both of you being fairly sane helps.

One thing that helps is to be quite sure you are self-typed correctly. People come here with different degrees of sureness on that. I wonder how sure you are on your two types?

Maine coast sounds great!