My mom is a clear cut ESE. I type my dad as LSI, but he really could be SLI.
My mom is a clear cut ESE. I type my dad as LSI, but he really could be SLI.
My dad is LSI (only second alternative typing is LSE, pretty sure he's a STj type).
My mom is a SF, and probably a p type, most likely SEI.
But I haven't pondered about their types too much.
Sometimes you don't have motivation because you lack purpose.
Sometimes you don't have purpose, because you lack self-knowledge
Sometimes you don't have self-knowledge because you lack love
Sometimes you don't have love because you lack self-love
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Neither one of my parents was healthy even for betas. Dad especially has a lot of problems. You're right about the yelling thing, and the political and religious differences. I don't really want kids at all. Maybe that was due to my childhood, but maybe not. I gain satisfaction more from hobbies and personal interests. I don't feel like spending time and energy on kids.
It was really easy to piss them off. Could hardly speak without offending them. To me they always seemed like frustrated perfectionists too.
Mom ESI-Fi, Dad EIE-Ni.
Mom's mom, ESI-Fi, Mom's dad EIE-Ni.
Dad's mom EIE-Ni, Dad's dad LSI-Se.
Dad's mom's mom Beta ST creative function subtype, Dad's mom's dad EIE-Ni.
I fucking HATE being the ethical subtype. The ESI-Se has it so much easier, can make tons of money without having to bust their ass, isn't anywhere near as OCD, is way more gentle and well-coordinated, doesn't require as much control, can have the relationships they want, have better Fi, Ti, Si, Ni, Ne, Se, and Fe, and is so much smarter and more original and more beautiful, isn't anywhere near as self-conscious nor as neurotic in any other way, not anywhere near as needy yet has better social skills anyway and can get out of what they don't want to do.
I'm sorry, but I'm psychologically disturbed.
Mother - SEI-Si
Father: LSE-Si
Sister: SEE-Se
Mom is ILI-Te, I’m thinking dad is most likely SLI-Si. I didn’t grow up with him. They can’t interact without arguing, which can be comical but not really.
Dad - ILI-Te
Mom - ESE-Si
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
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http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
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Ouch. my mom is ILI-Te and I was raised by her and my ESE-Fe grandma. in theory the subtypes of your parents make them more compatible, but man, conflict is often UGLY when they live together.
on another note, i see ILIs gravitating toward ESEs very often, more often than other conflictor pairs. I wonder why this is.
My dad chose my mom believing she'd help look after my grandma (his mother) in her old age & also that my mom would support him (my dad) while he got his business started.
My dad's polr is Fe, his DS is Se. My mom's strong in both. Not gonna bad-mouth my parents, I'll just recommend people use wisdom when choosing a partner
Appreciate you sharing your personal story, btw
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
ILI mom, ILE dad. Due to my mom’s Fi HA/excessive boundary setting they haven’t spoken in like 20 years lol.
It's the most rare IR to make stable pairs and hence low possible.
I recommend to give them not a long test to get other possible types. One dichotomy may change IR to positive/neutral what has more chance to be true.
what happened: they wanted to born you so much that ignored Socionics
[types mb other easily]
ew... you should understand that the chance of a mistake is higher when you suppose so bad IR of people who agree to marry. if they'll stay for >5 years without clear emotional or relations problems - the mistake is almost not doubtful
The experience of very good and very bad IR in significant feelings is among reasons of the interest to Socionics. In my case, for example.
Comedies should be inspired by good IR. while bad IR may be behind horror genre stories.
Last edited by Sol; 05-26-2021 at 01:32 PM.
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