^^^^

Yeah, this is a perfect example of what I was getting at, with @Adam Strange about the appeal of duality

Not sure what its like with the FI doms, but I too, am constantly reading the other person to see if they are as happy as I am, and I need that feedback! It seems a bit tough to get that with an FE polr, but maybe with time/maturity it works out.....
Despite the benefits of the match up, due to the reasons above, duality doesn't seem so appealing from the outside...