SEE/ESFp and ILI/INTp Duality? (Aggressor-Victim)

[DELL]

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Yeah, this is a perfect example of what I was getting at, with @Adam Strange about the appeal of duality

Not sure what its like with the FI doms, but I too, am constantly reading the other person to see if they are as happy as I am, and I need that feedback! It seems a bit tough to get that with an FE polr, but maybe with time/maturity it works out.....
Despite the benefits of the match up, due to the reasons above, duality doesn't seem so appealing from the outside...

[faceonfire]

Yeah I struggle with Fe polr because I'm such an exuberant and emotional person. When they don't show anything it's frustrating and gets hard to read. I can tone myself down to match their level, and I don't push feelings on people, but I appreciate enthusiastic feedback. While ILIs have qualities I appreciate, they're not the most exciting people. I find myself craving a strong Ni and Te influence in my life, but romantically I'm more drawn to expressive and colorful people.