I don't know what your type is, but beyond some very very general statements, most of this romantic-behavioral stuff is bullshit and these broad, sweeping statements can't be made. I don't think you're getting that great of advice. I'm ILI, and i've been able to get along great with female ESIs, SEEs, IEIs, EIIs, IEEs, LIEs, ILIs, SLEs, LSIs, and even EIEs. There have been bad cases of every one of these types as well. The difference is in the highs and in some cases the consistency (e.g. i get along with ESIs fairly consistently).