Quote Originally Posted by SheWolf View Post
I'm really, really curious to know what an SEE's and ILI's duality looks like in a romantic relationship. What's it like?
SheWolf, there is an SEE female named HotSauce who posted here a few times recently regarding her relationship with her ILI BF. You could look for those posts, or try PM'ing her.

Beyond that, I have no experience with SEE-ILI duality. I know only one SEE (married to an IEI) and several ILI's, none of whom are dualized. Three of the four ILI's are not married or in relationships, but have been in relationships which failed before. I watched a couple fail. The ILI distances himself from his partner, and the partner gives up. The fourth ILI is married to an ESI.

My guess is that @consentingadult's link http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...Stratiyevskaya should give you some hints as to how the SEE-ILI relationship would go.