Ok, considering the fact that typing people is very hard for me, i have a hard time trying to determine someone's type in real life situations. Plus if I like a girl, I dont try and analyze her too much because it seems to choke out whatever emotion i may have had to begin with. These two factors make it hard for me to use socionics in relationships.
Now if I really knew VI very well I could probably speed type people very well due to my which makes it easy to see abstract patterns in my head, meaning i could probably speed type people without analyzing them too much and thus ignoring the emotional aspect of the relationship. But maybe this is not true, maybe Im assuming too much.
So what I want to ask is this: Do you and if yes, how do you use socionics in your life?