The whole question sounds random and maybe even "leading".and then how does he make you act, like yourself or unlike yourself. (Realizing this is probably a strange question for you)
Which aspect of this question did you think would be strange?
Best answer I've read here in a long time.The mechanism is not "how he makes me act". From my internal experience, I become aware of myself being hyper-like-myself. Or to make it clearer, it's like seeing my own reflection for the first time in my life, and feeling surprise and gladness that I'm there in this universe. And it's amazing because I'm not alone. And it's not a physical mirror. It's invisible yet the knowing is felt deeply throughout my being, and I know he feels it too. When I "move", he spontaneously moves and understands, and vice versa. It's a synergetic completeness, and a crisp, illuminating awareness of exactly what I am.