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    Quote Originally Posted by lemontrees View Post
    I don't like "soft" vibing men, do you? And if so, what's the appeal.
    Yes, I prefer them. The appeal is that they're more energetically compatible with me. And because my style is a bit more on the perimeters of gender norms for women, it creates a familiar feeling for me when the other person has comparable experience in the male version.
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    The reason why it's Fi polr is you crossed a boundary by insulting a person before establishing a friendly relation with them.
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    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    The reason why it's Fi polr is you crossed a boundary by insulting a person before establishing a friendly relation with them.
    Yeah! And also, I assumed that how people acted on the outside was a reflection of how people are feeling about each other (I thought "insulting people = people are friends who like each other"). But actually, it's not a bad thing for a guy to sound like a girl lol... and he really really sounded like a girl. Since I didn't really believe it was bad, I guess it was like a joking insult. Eventually the guy realized that I didn't mean it seriously I think...

    I always say awkward things like that without thinking about the normal circumstances in a relationship where it would be appropriate or what it implies.............
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    Quote Originally Posted by niffer View Post
    Yeah! And also, I assumed that how people acted on the outside was a reflection of how people are feeling about each other (I thought "insulting people = people are friends who like each other"). But actually, it's not a bad thing for a guy to sound like a girl lol... and he really really sounded like a girl. Since I didn't really believe it was bad, I guess it was like a joking insult. Eventually the guy realized that I didn't mean it seriously I think...

    I always say awkward things like that without thinking about the normal circumstances in a relationship where it would be appropriate or what it implies.............
    Yes ! You assumed that they are Fe. Outer feelings are their feelings
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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    More Q that I need an A to.

    A. Would you like going on a blind date with an IEI I befriended at work and assured you that he (or she if you're a dude) is good looking?
    B. Do SLE typically enjoy cross country mountain biking or only bombing downhill?

    Inquiring minds would like to know!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MisterNi View Post
    More Q that I need an A to.A. Would you like going on a blind date with an IEI I befriended at work and assured you that he (or she if you're a dude) is good looking?B. Do SLE typically enjoy cross country mountain biking or only bombing downhill?Inquiring minds would like to know!
    a) I would rather you would introduce us at a large group event or something. If I was feeling desperate, then yeah maybe lol.

    b) I'm not skilled at biking. I can only handle leisurely flat hill biking.
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    Quote Originally Posted by niffer View Post
    a) I would rather you would introduce us at a large group event or something. If I was feeling desperate, then yeah maybe lol.

    b) I'm not skilled at biking. I can only handle leisurely flat hill biking.
    Your a response sounds weird to me and your b response is greatly disappointing to me. I'll ask some more questions if you don't mind answering.

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