Quote Originally Posted by tejing View Post
This is probably important. I notice that in real-time text communication I can't really hold my full attention on the relationship because there just isn't enough there to work with, so I tend to try to switch back and forth between the conversation and my own internal world... it doesn't work very well; the rhythm of the communication is all wrong. If your friend is like me, then what you see as disinterest is probably more like "huhwhat? I was thinking about something else." (like this)

You might want to consider sticking to voice (where the rhythms work more naturally) and non-real-time text (where short-term rhythms don't really matter).
I think you may be right. The natural interplay of two Ne-egos, while exhilarating, doesn't really work over text. Even my best friend (IEE) and I have texting issues and prefer to call. Otherwise, it seems like conversations between two Ne-egos usually devolve into mutual bitching, which can become draining.