Quote Originally Posted by bolong View Post
The dude you are describing sounds completely ILE. He has an out there imagination, but also seemingly boundless energy.
Not only that but the guy sounds extremely controlling, selfish, emotionally and psychologically abusive. I can't see this person as an IEI for several other reasons but those things seem a bit over the top in this case. He does not seem to care at all for his wife and her feelings. Regardless their types I believe she is in a bad relationship the way AS describes it and it is not necessarily a conflictor relationship. The examples he gives illustrate something far more insidious going on.