Thanks for sharing your personal experiences.
Personally, all I am looking for (Socionics-wise) is a guy who has
in his Ego (except for ESI, because the relation is asymmetric etc.)
In this way, I can be somewhat sure he actually appreciates my
insights – and I would surely appreciate his
.
I might also consider an
ego type if he was particularly self-aware, secure, healthy and so on; but in this time of my life, I crave some of that Se-Ni interaction, and find I need Se help.
To sum it up, all I would truly need in a partner (Socionics-wise) is someone who also values Se-Ni, because it is a vital part of who I am, and what I have been missing in my teens.
(Oh, and honestly, I'd like my guy having the Aggressor Romance Style.
Haha.)