Quote Originally Posted by Muddytextures View Post
For me its the same reason why I drift apart from everyone else dual or non-dual, I almost never initiate social contact with people I don't routinely interact with due to shyness and not feeling "liked" enough to be permitted to invade people's space in order to get to know them better. Only hope for me is if I run into someone who REALLY wants to get to know me, which has yet to happen.
One thing to keep in mind though is that if someone who really wants to get to know you is always having to initiate, they may get the impression you arent that into them (this applies platonically too, not just romantically). They may grow tired/discouraged by your lack of reaching out.