The first sentence of this quote is entirely true in my experience, though I would never openly admit this. Better to use subtlety and timing to cultivate this image without appearing to exercise any tremendous effort.
Your entire description is excellent and I can not think of a rebuttal to any point made at this time. I have been reviewing your posts here and I'd like to thank you for sharing your insights. There are few sources that speak with the level of understanding you have displayed, let alone have been willing to share with such openness.