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Myst We can now rule out ILI since I think I'm an aggressor not a victim.
- I absolutely loathe the idea of being physically vulnerable around anyone to the point where I can't stand wearing less layers of clothing around people.
- I don't deny romantic interest in someone when my friends ask me about it.
- I may not approach romantic interests but it's never been made clear to me by them that they are interested.
- People tend to mistake me for being a weak person but are surprised when I quickly confront them.
- I don't disgust weakness in others like victims are said to. Instead, I actually tend to open up and show kindness to those who submit to me and I am moved by great acts of loyalty.
- In my ideal relationship I am very much the dominant one.
- I prefer to be chased to a certain point before becoming the chaser myself.
I know ILIs/LIEs are also referred to as "psuedo-aggressors" but even that doesn't seem to cover it as they still have a lot of victim qualities that I don't relate to.
Any insights into this matter are more than welcome.