This seems to be a representation of LSI so/sp + IEI sx/so romance. Not quite duality but close.
Lol, some of the pictures seem a bit too universal and apply to male-female in general, while others seem a bit too extreme.
I've read a lot about the romantic styles recently and identified them in a few people I know, and I see the SLE - IEI pair as more like this...
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where the SLE isn't some club-wielding, barbaric rapist and the IEI isn't some easy tag-along slutbag.
Just saying.
Last edited by Resonare; 01-27-2016 at 05:56 PM.
Why is the IEI always female and the SLE always male? Any pictures of the reverse just to mix things up a bit?
LII-Ne with strong EII tendencies, 6w7-9w1-3w4 so/sp/sx, INxP
This could be an example of male Beta NF Victim (left) with a female Beta ST Aggressor (right). @chips and underwear
in real life
(IEI-Fe + SLE)
(IEI-Ni + SLE)
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
Belmondo - F
IEI and SLE couples are rare af apparently. Result type duals tend to not like/accept eachother as much as process type duals do.
I would agree with the first sentence, but the second one confuses me. How did you arrive at this justification for IEI-SLE pairs to be rare? Why would Result types not like each other? Is that some observation you have made, or where does this idea come from?
I believe Dual pairs are not that common in general, because most people tend to date a type that is more similar to their own in terms of strengths and weaknesses, as well as Jungian dichotomies.
it's from here: http://wikisocion.org/en/index.php?t...ypes_by_Tsypin
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LIE, ENTj (Jack)
The most common descriptions of his dual: "(unflattering and untrue descriptions omitted from this quote)" LIE seeks partners that won't limit his freedom, who have a lenient outlook on his "adventures", and who won't teach him how to live and control his every step. He often chooses EII, LSI, ILI, SEE, and LII as his partners. "
Well, this is an incredible bummer. I've dated all of the above types (except SEE), including SLI's and IEI's, but never an ESI.
I wonder if a knowledge of Socionics can overcome the Results orientation? We shall see.
Last edited by Adam Strange; 05-06-2016 at 09:36 PM.
Let's come back to Beta Duality...
For IEI, it says:
Often his "partners in life" are types LII, LSI, ESI, SLI, and ILE.
Yes to all of those matches, I have seen them often, except for SLI. I have never known a long-term SLI-IEI pair before. I think this is a bit inaccurate. Other than that, it fits.
For SLE, it says:
The SLE is more interested in partners with whom he can, more or less on equal footing, discuss and resolve important "sensory" issues to himself – earning money, accumulation of material prosperity, arrangement of his "territory", building his career. Thus, he often chooses SEI and SLI as his partners from strategic considerations, and also gets interested in ESI, ILI, EIE, and LSI.
This is pretty true, as far as I know. IME, most SLEs date ESI for the short-term and SEI for the long-term.
All of this may be more or less true in regards to Result types, but even so, I find LSI-EIE Duality is even more rare than IEI-SLE Duality.
So, I wonder how you would explain LSI-EIE Duality being more rare, even though they are Process types.
Well, being LIE, I can't explain it in a Ti fashion (I think Different. My LSI GF told me that I had the potential to be a great thinker, but I chose to take the low path and make money instead. I see it as having escaped a dry, useless academia to actively influence the real world. Ti vs Te. ), but I do know of two, possibly three couples whom I believe to be female LSI- male EIE.
Of the two that I'm more sure of, one couple is together and one is not. In both cases, the female LSI's work as technical writers, and the male EIE's have been addicted to pain medicine and have had unsteady employment.
Money may be a factor in whether they stay together. In the case of the couple which is still together, the EIE's father is rich (the EIE doesn't work - he had a motorcycle accident 20 years ago and the drugs he takes affect his attention and cause him to shake, altho he pursues his hobbies well enough) and his father bought them a house when they got married, and recently bought them another, larger house.
In the case where the couple is not together, the EIE spent their money on pain killers and cheated on her. I asked the LSI if her EIE was dramatic, and didn't she need some drama in her life? She sarcastically said, "Oh, yes, like sit back and watch the show." I got the impression she got tired of the drama and of having her life destroyed every week.
Those two examples don't look too good for this dual pair, but that is only two examples, and I may have typed them wrong. (The third couple, if I have typed them right, is happily married on a farm in Florida. She for sure is LSI, but I've only seen pictures of him.) In all fairness, someone said in chat that EIE's are either very, very bad or very, very good. My personal impression is that, regardless of anything else, EIE's are masterful at navigating social situations.
It might be possible that, because EIE's are so good at social interactions and people, they create crises just to keep from being bored.
Alternately, it may be that the stereotypes we associate with each type have some truth to them, and that the behaviors associated with the stereotypes can cause tremendous trouble for anyone, even in a relationship where the people "metabolize" information in a complementary fashion.
There is a huge difference between understanding and actions.
Last edited by Adam Strange; 05-07-2016 at 05:06 PM.
Personally, I believe all it boils down to is this: ESEs are way more common than EIEs.
So, naturally, an LSI is more likely going to end up with an ESE.
Add to that the circumstance that Semi-Duality among Rational types tends to be more satisfying than among Irrationals.
And that is why you'll see more LSI-ESE than LSI-EIE.
(Perhaps the ESE being a Result type and not quickly enamored by the LII could play a factor here, as well.)
Anyone ever watched the Studio Ghibli film Princess Mononoke? This is some intense SLE female IEI male protagonist action going down. Funny, ever since I was a wee kid watching this movie on TV at home, I'd always knew I wanted to marry someone like the prince Ashitaka lol. Gentle, peaceful, stoic, and kind.
Ashitakaaaaaaa!!!!
[Today 07:57 AM] Raver: Life is a ride that lasts very long, but still a ride. It is a dream that we have yet to awaken from.
It's hard to find a love through every shade of grey.
I have seen the movie.
I would agree with you on typing Mononoke as Beta ST. Personally, I lean towards LSI for her.
Ashitaka... I tend to view him more as ESI. His endurance and force in combat showcase his Creative Se, while he does have a more "sensitive" side. Perhaps he is 9w8.
Mononoke might be a Counterphobic 6... she seems very counter phobic. Maybe she is Sx/So 6w7.
On a superficial level I can see why those traits would cause those typings, especially with your case for Se placement in Ashitaka. The reason for my typings is because of what their roles symbolize as they fit in the story and interact with all of the other characters overall. And as for Ashitaka's overall character, I have difficulty seeing his core personality (aside from his magic physical powers) being something other than Ni lead. That and the supervision relationship he has with Eboshi (LIE) thinking he's a dumbass throughout the plot, lol if he were ESI then it wouldn't fit.
[Today 07:57 AM] Raver: Life is a ride that lasts very long, but still a ride. It is a dream that we have yet to awaken from.
It's hard to find a love through every shade of grey.
I'm just gonna go ahead and give all my typings for the rest of the characters too then. It's pretty much the Clock of the Socion playing out in an Ni masterpiece of life and the universe where humans interact with nature and themselves and everything explodes as the betas and gammas go crazy and then the cycle of life begins all over again.
Jigo - ILE
Gonza - LSE
Toki - SEE
Kohroku - ILI
Forest god - EII, becoming ESI nightwalker at night lololol (or this could be the other way around, i'm not rly sure)
Kodama - IEEs lol
Boar god - SEI
Mononoke hime's wolf mom - SLI
[Today 07:57 AM] Raver: Life is a ride that lasts very long, but still a ride. It is a dream that we have yet to awaken from.
It's hard to find a love through every shade of grey.