Conflict relations aren't that one-sided - usually conflictors can see each other's PoLRs, so if you were ILE you would see and critique ESI's +Ne PoLR as much as they could hone into your -Fi PoLR. On eastern socionics forums this usually shows itself as ILEs saying that the ESI seems to be "stuck in a rut" or "sitting in a swamp", to use the exact expression, and doesn't want to get out of it no matter how much the ILE tries to inspire and move them "towards their dreams". This brief response
link could also be an example of how the ILE sees ESI +Ne PoLR as being too "unprogressive", too stuck in their own backwards views, and at the same time unwilling to adapt and change their outlook.