I've been lectured by Fi doms numerous times. I've always come across as innocent and nice and I really don't mean harm or ill will. It is my perceptions and people misunderstanding them that can be a source of conflict. For example, in the 4th grade I learned that I had an uncle who had HIV. I also learned in 4th grad that HIV attacks the T-cells of the immune system. I had a very difficult time accepting that my uncle was going to die. I ended up drawing a picture of some sort of monster dressed in military combat gear(labelled HIV) firing bullets at T-cells, killing them. This girl asked to see my drawings and once she saw this one she told me sternly that it wasn't funny. It did embarrass me a little, but she misunderstood. Situations like this tend to happen to me from time to time.