Hello everyone, been lurking for about a month or two and not sure if I'm doing this right but my dominant Ni hasn't led me astray so far so I'ma just wing this and see what happens.
Poor, single, and seeking to complete my world theory/philosophy so that I can finally tell everyone how to live their lives to the fullest and be happy and actually be right in saying those things. I found it interesting that in this sphere of thinking there are things like "victims" that contradicted my studies into "game" and the like. Game, for instance, says that any good "alpha" male is aggressive and seeks to conquer his woman and subordinate her to himself and that if he doesn't then he's a pathetic "beta" who will never find romantic success in the long term, period. I found that to be true given my previous observations on human nature, r/K selection, and what I had seen going on in my life in the past yet I kept on fantasizing about an aggressive girl taking me for her own no matter how hard I tried not to. I saw that as ideal, a woman should know exactly what she wants and move to take it even if she has to get a little forceful and mean. Push him down, kiss him, ram your tongue down his throat, tell him how much you need him, that's how you make him yours!
As a "Philosopher" I found this contradiction rather disturbing and unsettling. In philosophy one's contradictions are unacceptable, if at any point one thing contradicts another in your theory then you either resolve the contradiction or be known by any real philosopher as a total idiot and fool (things I strive not to be). I've been reading Jung and MBTI material as well and found much to be valued as, again, I've been seeing it now all around me. The types exist, their interactions between each other are also very much predictable and they're playing out according to the theories espoused on this site. For instance, I suspect my brother is my "dual" as we never have trouble interacting and I find his company most enjoyable. He's really the best brother I could have hoped for in my eyes and yeah, I can almost guarantee he's SEE and boy am I glad that's the case since he's married to what I suspect is an IEI so, while not ideal, at least he probably won't get divorced for bullshit reasons (and you do NOT want a divorce in the western world if you're a dude, lemme tell ya). My mom is my "semi-dual" as, among other major identifiers, while we generally get along every now and then it all breaks down and we get viciously nasty with each other yet, as according to socionics, we can't stay mad at each other for very long and make up rather quickly. I got a cousin who I suspect is my quasi-identical and... Well, you understand, it all plays out according to theory by and large.
And, as I relish telling people how things really are, ask a question about your life. I'll apply my Ni and tell ya how things are probably gonna work out for ya, though you probably won't like how I say it, ILI is famously misanthropic and I'll show you how and why .