Is this a serious or sarcastic question?
(I'll just treat it seriously, ha.)
Anyhow, I've seen the intertype relation descriptions to be pretty accurate. They tend to err on the too negative side (not so only for Duality
), so that is what I don't focus on too much. (For Conflict the negativity is truly warranted, though. One of the greatest reasons why I am still struggling with certain insecurities is thanks to having a Conflictor Dad.) But having experienced all those relations (not necessarily romantically) they all "click" for me, yes.
"Do you have faith in finding your SLE?". Hm. I have faith in finding the one person that is good and right for me. Ideally it would be an SLE, because this way our type differences would not be the issue, and more easily resolvable as a whole. Really, Duality is mostly about a union that "just works" without having to compromise as much as with other relations. In Duality you are simply the most open to be "just yourself". I'd really like that, and I find SLEs interesting. I surely know that I need a romantic partner to have
in their valued functions (minimum), most preferably in their Ego. I've been attracted to
throughout my entire life, with differing degrees of strength, depending on my internal balance and/or stress levels. I am strong
subtype. I need someone to be the balance to that.
The only other type that did not possess
valuing/nor Ego I have ever been truly strongly attracted to, was an IEE-Fi. I attribute that to the fact of me having been drawn to what I thought to recognize as Se ego in their Super Ego. And also, the fact that Fi subtype moves IEE more closer to Aggressor and away from Childlike. And then the EP temperament. And the same Cognitive Style as my Dual. And then the fact he was my "physical type", and we shared a few interests. Haha.
But slowly it dawned on me he was not "what I thought he was" (here the extinguishment comes!), and that he reminded me a lot of my Conflictor Dad (fellow Delta, ha!) After that, I was totally disenchanted and brought back to reality. Let me mention at this point that I did not even know about Socionics at that time. So, I did not know it was the "Delta values" which were so opposite to mine; I just intuitively knew that he was "similar to my Dad" in similar with me conflicting ways, and that this fact made us incompatible.