You seemed to give plenty of benefit of the doubt to them. You were looking at the same situation from two perspectives while owning your own. I think that's not only great but a facet of maturity. And it's super useful to me because I know you can see from my perspective (which engenders trust) and then you are clearly saying how it all affects you. Since I'm forgetful and habit-bound I might not utilize it right away, but it's there now and hopefully in the future it'll help me treat others like you better.