Superegos, oh my

[Slava]

This is an interesting convo I had with my ESFp Ex....



Slava: hows it going
Jen: your an idoit
Slava: haha
Jen: lol
Jen: yes an idoit
Jen: i said it
Jen: what do you think of that
Slava: i like it
Slava: more
Slava: ;-)
Slava: lol
Jen: i want your body
Slava: and i want yours
Jen: ew
Jen: good bye
Slava: lol
Jen <AUTO-REPLY> : out with my boy and the girls
Slava: ur a bitch
Slava: i hate you a little bit
Slava: kinda
Slava: but something about you makes me like you as well
Slava: maybe its the things i lack and want
Slava: i know why you called me an idiot too, because you think i dont know how things are between you and me
Slava: and i am being ignorant of the nonexisting relationship
Slava: but i dont operate like you
Slava: i relate to people differently
Slava: i look past certain thins that you dont look past, but i dont look past certain things that you look at
Slava: i guess it would just never work anyways
Slava: i just thought id clarify my stance
Slava: oh fierce master of relationships
Slava: who lacks insite and a sense of cause and effect
Jen <AUTO-REPLY> : out with my boy and the girls
Jen: what?
Jen: lol
Slava: you heard me
Slava: ur a tit
Slava: and i dont mean the bird
Jen: ur a ball sack
Slava: ur a nipple ring
Slava: oh what now
Slava: i thought so
Jen: ur an ass magor
Jen: *magot
Slava: your a queef vortex
Jen: your a semen swimmer
Slava: your a butt hole researcher
Slava: Jen: listen dude i am sooo glad you came out and told me you love me and whatnot but fuck off and i mean that in the wrost possible way
Slava: i dont love you
Slava: i love to not love you
Slava: its a visious cycle
Slava: i need someone to not love
Jen: that is cool dude
Slava: and i love the things i need
Jen: later
Slava: bye queef

[Slava]

I wonder if this is what goes on inside of my head during descision making processies.

[Gilly]

rofl

[science as magic]

Slava: i need someone to not love
Jen: that is cool dude
Slava: and i love the things i need

no one has ever clarified that sentiment so well for me before. i have a similar dynamic with esfp ex.

[Slava]

Thats my ex from 11th grade, the convos was from today... I need to find myself a smarter and more ESFp'ish ESFp who can handle my extremeness. This one is sorta smart but not really. I get along much better with the more extreme ones, they tollerate my weaknesses more because of reciprocation ethics, but this one doesnt have to.

[Dioklecian]

Thats my ex from 11th grade, the convos was from today... I need to find myself a smarter and more ESFp'ish ESFp who can handle my extremeness. This one is sorta smart but not really. I get along much better with the more extreme ones, they tollerate my weaknesses more because of reciprocation ethics, but this one doesnt have to.

How long did you wait to contact again your ex?