Ok I mostly can't follow this discussion because, well, it's Iris. So I will share one of my stupid little stories which seems to be my only way to contribute.
My LSE friend was talking about an Alpha whose husband surprised her with a midsize SUV. The Alpha returned it to the dealership, not because it was a gas guzzler, but because she thought it was too large and that
it wasn't fair to the other drivers on the road. Then the LSE and an IEE who was also present both nodded their heads in this slightly bemused but yet understanding way that implied that the Alpha was validated in having her own unique opinion.
My Beta reaction was how stupid, how ridiculous, who cares about the other drivers. Get a safe car, its a jungle out there.
Would a Gamma might have a similar reaction? @
Sienna.
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suedehead So how do you react to idiosyncrasy? Are you tolerant even though you might not agree?