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Congratulations on procuring a mate!

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I don't see how one can determine an N or an S from such a question

The method is identification of Se and Ne and what the person prefers based on what they say.

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The method is identification of Se and Ne and what the person prefers based on what they say.

As I understand it, N as a 'function' entails a wholeness and S as a 'function' entails seperateness, ergo one has N at times being related to what can be referred to as the bigger picture.

Apart from some form of annoyance, I'm not detecting anything in such a comment by @Kim to infer one or the other of these. Could you elaborate on how your observation ties in with a particular side of the irrational function(s)? Perhaps it's a gut feeling?

I suppose I don't see it, whether Kim is Se or Ne leading based on these criterias. Far be it from me to say, but perhaps relieving yourself of the need to type people apparently sporadically would help you relax? Or why do you do this also?

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As I understand it, N as a 'function' entails a wholeness and S as a 'function' entails seperateness, ergo one has N at times being related to what can be referred to as the bigger picture.

Apart from some form of annoyance, I'm not detecting anything in such a comment by @Kim to infer one or the other of these. Could you elaborate on how your observation ties in with a particular side of the irrational function(s)? Perhaps it's a gut feeling?

I suppose I don't see it, whether Kim is Se or Ne leading based on these criterias. Far be it from me to say, but perhaps relieving yourself of the need to type people apparently sporadically would help you relax? Or why do you do this also?

Se "Control" - SeTi, SeFi
Physical objects, elements, and people can be mobilized to achieve a goal. Se is intrisinctly involved in observing the properties of objects in the immediate sense. What precise color is it, how does it taste, what exactly does it smell like? Strong Se focuses easily and constantly on the outer properties of the objects at hand.

Ne "Possibility" - NeFi, NeTi
A certain event is spreading in multiplying directions of potential events.

To write this

However, the *funky* items make me happy (I can look at the super cute ring I am wearing at the moment, for example, and be over the moon about it haha ) and that is more important than looking *put together.* I really need at least one happy-making item. I had a job interview recently and wore a generic grey suit. I had a really cute pair of shoes to go with it and shake thing up a little, but I could not wear them that day because I was too cold. So I wore a shirt that by itself might have been unsuitable (not *professional,* probably too *cute*), but under the jacket it worked (or at least I hope it did). I think I derive confidence not from the overall look, but individual items.

Involves observing the outer qualities of an object. And, also what she wrote about that each object stands on it's own is in line with what you wrote.

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Se "Control" - SeTi, SeFi
Physical objects, elements, and people can be mobilized to achieve a goal. Se is intrisinctly involved in observing the properties of objects in the immediate sense. What precise color is it, how does it taste, what exactly does it smell like? Strong Se focuses easily and constantly on the outer properties of the objects at hand.

Ne "Possibility" - NeFi, NeTi
A certain event is spreading in multiplying directions of potential events.

To write this


Involves observing the outer qualities of an object. And, also what she wrote about that each object stands on it's own is in line with what you wrote.

I disagree to an extent but I apologise I can't link better sources just now.

You are pretty right but as discussed in another (?) thread is that any type can be controlling so it mixes personality with function.

To extrapolate on N, I have an ENFp friend who can sum up external trends in a way I can't, regardless of his other personality traits, hence N as a wholeness.

Hmm I did not expect to say all this So I hope it is not in vain regardless of SEE or IEE

[Eliza Thomason]

I feel so inadequate reading this. hahah I lived out of boxes, storage bins, and suitcases, with paintings and artwork propped against walls, mattress on the floor, for a little over a year, with an ILI. It was because I knew I wasn't staying there long and didn't want to pack it all up again in a year. I did that a couple of times. Now I have everything arranged how I want it and all my art is on the walls. I know it will all be just the way I left it whenever I return and it feels nice to be "home". It's hard for me to make someplace home when I know I will be moving on soon.

Well, I think in a way you do what you have to do: meaning, what your personality makeup is telling you works for you, but its not always the best thing for the situation, but its the thing that feels right to you. Your not hanging artwork when you KNOW you won't be there long makes logical sense really. Unfortunately, I might wear myself arranging everything and hanging artwork and then unhanging and rehanging for the next move, but later feeling overwhelmed and arrears in all kinds of tasks and reminding myself of that little waste of time.

My first big move from the home I loved and worked on was during the divorce/custody proceedings and while I prepared our home for sale, a temporary home at my parents townhouse, for the duration of one schoolyear. My son and I had a very large bedroom on the second floor and a bathroom. In our room there was plenty of room for my full and his twin bed and both of our dressers and nightstands and a desk and room to spare. The main floor was my parents and we were not welcome to put much of any of our stuff there. But we had this giant empty basement. I went to huge lengths to make it like our own living room. I bought an area carpet, installed lights, made a TV and computer area, but the biggest obstacle was the huge expanse of walls that were covered with shiny aluminium-foil covered insulation. Now that's not homey. I had this great idea of how to cover that ugliness and make it something great and I pursued this idea until it was completed. I designed a giant fabric mural! It covered two huge walls that sectioned off our living/recreation area. On plain muslim I used yards of fabric for calico hills in various greens and a huge yellow-gold calico castle with red-tiled (fabric) turrets and flags blowing in the wind.. It was a major undertaking but I had plenty of room to lay it out to work on. This was a really great project but how long did we have to enjoy it? Not more than a few months, and I knew that was going to happen, too, so it wasn't really a wise use of my time, which was always pinched... (Our apartment we moved to did not have a place for it and I tried to sell it but the mom who was interested in it for her basement playroom couldn't afford whatever I was asking and I ended up just giving it to her free when I realized she was as bad off as me)..