4w3 SX/SP
4w3 SX/SP
Catwalks - E4
Really lovin those marilyn monroe quotes. What a beautiful person inside and out. <3 rip.
the cutely dark side of envy: cats vs holiday decorations
4w3 sp/sx. her style/niche me of Kanye west, sp/sx 3w4
See the problem with this is that a lot if not most of those goth/emo kids are following trends or maybe a friend and are not actually 4s. Most will grow out of it. I have spent enough time in these scenes to tell the difference. Maybe a couple out of 10 were 4s. When my friends copied my style I stopped wearing black and dyed my hair red. Actually I think I went magenta before red. Not that I never wore black again to clubs but having my friends buy the same things I did when I was trying to express my individuality just irritated me. I have outgrown that. I don't care what others wear anymore. It does not reflect on me.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
Yes, I think so too (Many goths or emos are actually not 4s). I read somewhere about 4s experimenting with different styles and going through different phases trying to find who they are or what would make them unique. I had a goth phase once, even called myself gothkitty haha, but I wasn't truly Gothic. I'd dress like it, but I wasn't. Then i got into a tomboy-ish "trap" phase.I'm in a different phase now, classy grown-up, and I'm sure it'll change. Idk if all Fours are like this though.
C-EII-INFj 4w3 Sx/sp 479
Mostly goths are Ni type or F type, Ni type likes the darkness and it's an opportunity for some Fe types to be emo. F types, specially Fe types like to portray their moods through their clothing, and hairstyles.
Many 9s and especially 6s can dress unconventional as like an outlet for their individuality and weirdness because it's so covered up in their personality. Or as like a counter-phobic thing, for both of them.
nvm, retyped her core 7w6, 748 sx/so
There's something weird about her as a four. In the sense that her personality and the persona she puts out isn't as 'refined' or neurotically in check/restricted as a 4 (because of shame and self-consciousness, which is the main issue for type 4). Sx 7 is fairly 4ish in that it seeks pain more than a usual 7 because part of sexual instinct is romantic masochism. Plus she has a secondary 4 fix. The 8 fix helps with the volatility and bluntness, too. She's also too warm to be a 4. 4s withhold their warmth and limit themselves because they have a neurotic self-image of themselves as broken.
When i was thinking her as core 4 i thought 4w3, but now that thats her fix it could probably be 4w5 actually.
Fiona and Bob Dylan (4):
Clear contrast here in the way Bob Dylan is more 'refined', aka restricting himself and his personality. Fiona is much more 'loose' and happy-go-lucky, not fixated on what she looks like (image type and this image fixation is more exaggerated in type 4 than any other image type because of negative self image). Theyre actually the same tritype and stacking.
Level 5: To stay in touch with feelings, they interiorize everything, taking everything personally, but become self-absorbed and introverted, moody and hypersensitive, shy and self-conscious, unable to be spontaneous or to "get out of themselves." Stay withdrawn to protect their self-image and to buy time to sort out feelings.
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I'm breaking off some habits and I've been trying different affirmations on and off over the past year to see what helps the most. "I am safe and I am secure." doesnt help like it helps others, I suppose thats not my trigger point. but it seems "I am complete." has hit the effect on my wellbeing.
I have performed the necessary butchery. Here is the bleeding corpse.
HENRY JAMES, AFTER A REQUEST BY THE TIMES LITERARY SUPPLEMENT TO CUT THREE LINES FROM A 5,000 WORD ARTICLE
EIE-Ni 479 sp/sx Gentle Spirit
4w3 SO/SX
isnt that more social 3? 4s can't "do other personas" well
I know. But! I interpreted it more as search for identity, not peeling off masks which is SO 3 indeed. The general ideas was: "Who am I?" I remember having the same debate with @Olimpia elsewhere. 3 gives more of a deceptive, manipulative feeling. Like here:
There is glee for 3w4. For 4w3, there is more misery of that authentic core self which I thought was depicted well.
@Chae that's one of the creepier images ive ever seen.
I don't fear the clown, I find that amount of faces on the wall somewhat creepy.
Yeah it's not the clown. I can't put my finger on exactly what it is.
@nanashi i dont put that much 'faith' in socionics as an actual theory but if it was the case, a socionics type wouldnt magically cover up parts of an enneagram type because that defeats the purpose of someone being the type - it no longer has a problem.
im not retyping her based on her sociability alone. in her song lyrics she has a fair amount of positivity and hope and looking outward, more than id expect from a 4
https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/fion...aboutlove.html
https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/fion...thingsare.html
and i'd type her 6wing because 6 along with 4 are kind of masochistic and like "i deserve to feel like shit and have bad things happen to me"
https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/fion.../criminal.html
its like the same with adele.. she's a sx 7w6 and writes sad songs but the sad songs most of the time have a positivy part or hope to them even though theyre sad. like "someone like you", "when we were young", "send my love", "hello"
7 has a theatrical element like you'll see that type sometimes in theatre, them acting out sad scenes and being drawn toward that, because its a way to do sadness without actually being sad. i dont know very much about it, but ive seen people pointing this out on forums and it makes sense.
also, 7s (and 9s) are usually the people who are like "im soooo sensitive" because they expect the world to be a nice place and as a type, you see the rest of the world from your perspective. a 7 will want to keep people happy, so they expect other people to do this aswell. they dont want any bad news because theyre so sensitive to it (and as a 7 pain is their fear). whereas a 4 and 6 are expecting bad news and sadness on a regular basis (esp 4). theyre drawn to it and therefor used to it, therefor they appear to 'suck it up' more than 7s and 9s. though im not saying all 7s and 9s are like this.
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Came across this poem today, when read outloud my roommate said it was sad.
She clearly missed the last statement. It made everything beautiful, and everything worth while.
“Leisure, Hannah, Does Not Agree With You,” Hannah Gamble
I consider my life, my evolution, chapters not marked by phases of accomplishment but rather, epiphanies. revelations. This poem felt so good to me at that moment it was like finding God again. I felt so good.
I have performed the necessary butchery. Here is the bleeding corpse.
HENRY JAMES, AFTER A REQUEST BY THE TIMES LITERARY SUPPLEMENT TO CUT THREE LINES FROM A 5,000 WORD ARTICLE
EIE-Ni 479 sp/sx Gentle Spirit
!! This is it. This is the epitome of 4. Close this thread now we need nothing more lol.
I came across the music video and thus began the phase in my life I began to blossom, the things I liked was because I liked them, not because someone around me influenced me. late 2005 in the middle of the southwestern desert, I often say my soul was born in California. I consider this song Track 1 of the Birthing playlist lolol // jokes aside, I love everyones input on this thread.
I absolutely love this song and I know shes 4 and 7 fixed. Sp/sx makes a lot of sense why I related to this song down in the deep past.
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Has anyone seen the 2002 movie Secretary? I believe she's a 4 and he's a 1. I'm not sure subtypes. BDSM theme aside, it's really about love and the relationship. In fact I think its the only BDSM movie that doesnt have toxic love in it or actual signs of abuse. I love the way the protagonist and the movie describes love. I really like this sx 1w9 guy for a few months now. Hes the kind to ask my opinion on art and stuff and I know he will ask what my favorite love story is. And.. I cant exactly lie to him so I'm gonna tell him thats an answer to give later, because that's something that will give my whole soul away. I'll save it for when I'm sure he's at a place to see the movie again, or for the first time, and to view it objectively.
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something about ~Mom
Mary Shelley carried her husband’s heart around and lived in a crypt after he died. No one will ever be as goth as Mary Shelley.
She also wasn’t carrying around, like, a mummified heart. Her husband’s heart had calcified, meaning it had grown bone within itself and possibly around itself, and it is this heart of bone which she carried. When she was young she carried it wrapped in a silk pouch, and when older it was kept in her desk, wrapped in a page from his poem Adonais. Adonais was one of his last poems, in which a deceased poet’s subjects (nature, Spring, the stars) mourn him, and long to join him in death. Then the narrator tells them do not mourn, for he has gone beyond where the minds and emotions of humans matter, to the Natural Spirit that is the source of all beauty.
Of his poems, it is this which she wrapped his heart in. There is none. more. goth.
It’s sad to realize that peak goth was hit so long ago
I have performed the necessary butchery. Here is the bleeding corpse.
HENRY JAMES, AFTER A REQUEST BY THE TIMES LITERARY SUPPLEMENT TO CUT THREE LINES FROM A 5,000 WORD ARTICLE
EIE-Ni 479 sp/sx Gentle Spirit