Hmmm.
What I described about my LSE is just one aspect of him - household chores. Now I think he was brought up in that way. His ESFp mum does everything at home. His ILI father now doesn't work, and she does. She also cooks for him, clean, buys all his clothes etc. She told me that my LSE never even made his bed - she did that all for him.
I grew up with my ESE mother who was constantly critiizing me for the mess and making veeeeeeeeery big fuss about it. She still criticizes me a lot, asking my how I can bring up a child in such a place
. The truth is I'm really tryin hard to clean, I feel guilty that I'm not as good as I should. It's not his relaxness that's driving me nuts in that situation it's rather lack of help or rather different stadards that we have. He doesn't care about the home as much as I do because he spend almost all his time at work.
In general he's not lazy at all. He's really hard working, never satisfied with him in 100%. He's a really good manager, he also climbes the career ladder quite fast. The truth is our chid's changed a lot in our relationship. I miss him a lot and we are both missing the time when we were lying in bed all Saturday and our only duty was to walk the dogs
I don't want it to sound that it's bad and I don't like my life as a mother - I do a lot. But it's been 14 months I stay at home, not a single night I slept the whole, we don't have many opportunities to even have sex... and when we do our daughter may interrupt us because she wakes up and cries very often. I love her the most in the world but I've put on 30 kg when pregnant (almost lost already) haven't also gone anywhere without her (maybe a few Times with the dog or to the shop when she stayed with my mum).
I'm just tired and maybe this is what makes me sound as if I wasn't satisfied with my relationship. Maybe I'm a little but I blame it on the situation mostly.
Also, I'm really sure of our typings (99,9%) but I'm open to suggestions of course as I always may be wrong.