Originally Posted by
yeves
My EII friend is attracted to both SEE females and males. It's easy to explain with types: SEEs are her supervisors. They have something that she feels that she lacks in: a vibrant, outgoing, self-starter personality. She gets over major hurdles when the circumstances push her or the people around her persuade her into it, but she doesn't want it to be that way. To be more like them, she simulates their Se and starts acting like an SEE because she thinks it's "cool" and that she doesn't "measure up?" to it - she listens to some hardcore music, goes out to parties, puts up posters with bright, vibrant colors in her room. But it's not her at the same time?