Quote Originally Posted by schrödinger's cat
NeFi: Proud to be unique, but with a great love for harmony. Not fitting in = disharmony, strife, and botheration. BAD. I prefer some control over WHEN and HOW I don't fit in. Much better. Not fitting in altogether would feel too uncomfortable.
Ditto. I want to fit in, and need to fit in to some extent, but on my own terms.