I don't really give a crap what people think. They can have violent fantasies and whatever. I mean I don't really think thought crimes are what you want to punish in society.

As far as restrictive dress codes, those are usually the product of authoritarian regimes and not tolerant ones. If you can't differentiate violent fantasies from reality, you probably don't have a great place in modern society.

You can try and rationalize oppressive authoritarian dress codes but don't try to portray yourself as some sort of anti-authoritarian. You kinda of just want rationalize something modern society is loosening up on. As far as practical dress codes, they're a lot of reasons to have em, rape prevention is probably not high on my list.