I feel like I'm exactly this... I really desperately need to feel like I belong to a group. I know what I'm the happiest and most fulfilled when I'm part of a group or a community and feel like I'm being useful. If I can't belong to a group, then I'm as good as dead.
This brings conflicts as a 4. I desperately want to be "normal" to fit in, yet I still want to maintain my uniqueness somehow. This is probably solved by belonging to a group that is unique from society.
this is the impression that some, not all, so/sx's leave me with (~sx/sp)
The Verve - Bitter Sweet Symphony
(SP-last: The two self-preservation-lasts, sx/so and so/sx, steer clear of the earth element, which itself has a significant amount of dull weight to it, a bland stuckness, ‘a stick in the mud’. So, by contrast, the two sp-lasts are the butterfly stackings, spinning off a considerable amount of shimmer and sparkle, as they’re unsullied by dirt (earth) and the sullen droop and hunched seriousness of self-pres’s mundane concerns. This ungrounded quality is a double-edged sword though: For others, a welcome breakup of the monotony of hardened routines that congeal around self-pres; for those under the direct influence of these two stackings, however, there’s a particular incapacitation, a signature difficulty moving forward in certain areas of life — perpetual ‘immaturity’ on a practical level, sometimes a nomadic quality due to their characteristic ignorance around how to set firm steps and plant roots underneath their feet, or a wondering why one would even want do so.
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...t-descriptions)
Lucy Rose - LIE so/sx
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tattoo artist Scott Campbell - ILE (?) so/sx
This guy is an interesting type for me. There actually exists a special type of men that look really attractive to me but whenever they open their mouth and I actually see the way they act I just wish somebody would make them to shut the fuck up and he is exactly that type.
Wentworth Miller - so/sx 6
an sp last doing mukbang? yes
6w7, with a 9 fix probably
I think raves are really so/sx.. not that all so/sx's rave, far from it. But when someone is a frequent raver they're usually so/sx imo
Queue the rave music
Social Problems - So/Sx
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dSt3v_tvVQA
Except for impaired empathy, an ordinary guy who's looking for down-to-earth, loving, loyal friends and a geeky, warm, voluptuous girlfriend!
Full-blown Enneagram 7 SO/SX, prepare yourself.
i always fall for cute so/sx druggies
im in love with heeeeer
"darkside" so/sx - Michael Jackson 'Earth Song'
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As a so/sx this video makes me feel like being part of something bigger than ourselves, connecting all humans.. like we are all part of the universe. An eternal 'cycle' /circle of life.
These quotes from the movie Cloud Atlas resonate with me as well:
"Only as you gasp your dying breath shall you understand, your life amounted to no more than one drop in a limitless ocean!
Yet what is any ocean but a multitude of drops?”
“Our lives are not our own. We are bound to others, past and present, and by each crime and every kindness, we birth our future.”
“In an individual, selfishness uglifies the soul; for the human species, selfishness is extinction.”
Aaaand so many more. That movie just speaks to me on so many levels. So much wisdom. The movie is such a so/sx dream, hehe.
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Another song that might be so/sx:
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so/sx:
Oasis - Acquiesce
I don't know what it is
That makes me feel alive
I don't know how to wake
The things that sleep inside
I only wanna see the light
That shines behind your eyes
I hope that I can say
The things I wish I'd said
To sing my soul to sleep
And take me back to bed
You want to be alone
When we could be alive instead
Because we need each other
We believe in one another
And I know we're going to uncover
What's sleepin' in our soul
Because we need each other
We believe in one another
(And) I know we're going to uncover
What's sleepin' in our soul
What's sleepin' in our soul
So/Sx are attention whores? Just asking since I don't know many.