Sigh* Vid's here :p

[Creepy-theticalanti]

To be fair William you are probably not aware of the off forum conversations between them and between a group of us so there are other dynamics at play here. I believe that Elina and Merc have had some conversations that have led to a bit of miscommunication between them. They do not speak each other's languages. Merc often gives advice in a straightforward manner that is not taken well by some. I don't think he has ever intended to insult her but it might have been taken that way. I can totally see why.

I'm a bit appalled that you're defending him. And no, I doubt that it's completely unintentional when he proudly admits that 'he's judgmental'. (One must embrace the Se and see the motivations)

I've argued with Merc briefly in another thread about pointless crap until I realized that trying to have a conversation with him about anything meaningful is like trying to take down the Great Wall of China with your head.

[Satan]

I'm a bit appalled that you're defending him. And no, I doubt that it's completely unintentional when he proudly admits that 'he's judgmental'. (One must embrace the Se and see the motivations)

I've argued with Merc briefly in another thread about pointless crap until I realized that trying to have a conversation with him about anything meaningful is like trying to take down the Great Wall of China with your head.

First, we must be true to ourselves, and admit our own biases, and behaviours.

Second, if your arguement is solid then you will penetrate the wall.

Third, you really should stop banging your head against hard things. You'll get brain damage.

[Aylen]

I'm a bit appalled that you're defending him. And no, I doubt that it's completely unintentional when he proudly admits that 'he's judgmental'. (One must embrace the Se and see the motivations)

I've argued with Merc briefly in another thread about pointless crap until I realized that trying to have a conversation with him about anything meaningful is like trying to take down the Great Wall of China with your head.

Well you are choosing to feel appalled by it but I just threw out some random facts that some of you guys are not aware of. This is not the first time this conversation has happened between the two of them. I like them both and do not like to see them go back and forth but ultimately it is not my business how they choose to respond to each other.

[Creepy-theticalanti]

Well you are choosing to feel appalled by it but I just threw out some random facts that some of you guys are not aware of. This is not the first time this conversation has happened between the two of them. I like them both and do not like to see them go back and forth but ultimately it is not my business how they choose to respond to each other.

Yes, it was a good point. And how they choose to speak with each other privately is their business. But he just posted something on a PUBLIC discussion forum, open to the comments of other people.