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    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    Everyone knows deltas don't make friends; they're special flakes

    ignore me....
    You're right. INFjs don't make new friends. They never go out!

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Martrix View Post
    You're right. INFjs don't make new friends. They never go out!
    I don't go out to bars clubs ect but I've made lots of friends in my classes and work
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    I don't go out to bars clubs ect but I've made lots of friends in my classes and work
    Neither do I very often. But my friends pull my arm so I must go. I have to take all the chances at socialising as I can get. I have no outside work or classes to go to.

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    Important to note! People who share "indentical" socionics TIMs won't necessarily appear to be very similar, since they have have different backgrounds, experiences, capabilities, genetics, as well as different types in other typological systems (enneagram, instinctual variants, etc.) all of which also have a sway on compatibility and identification. Thus, Socionics type "identicals" won't necessarily be identical i.e. highly similar to each other, and not all people of "dual" types will seem interesting, attractive and appealing to each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Martrix View Post
    You're right. INFjs don't make new friends. They never go out!
    Also, could not be less true! Plenty of EIIs I know go out and have tons of friends (one EII I was friends with in HS had too many friends and always hurt my feelings by choosing them over me, lol). And I like to go out and do things, I just don't like going out just to stand around or pretend to have a good time. I love to shop and go to the movies but often do so alone. I can honestly saying that meeting new people and making friends is very easy for me, just not something I consider a "priority." Whereas I know EIEs and ESEs who consider it a MAJOR priority and yet don't seem to be ABLE to actually make friends with people. They're always going out to "brunch" or making plans with others whom they have no connection with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emmym View Post
    Also, could not be less true! Plenty of EIIs I know go out and have tons of friends (one EII I was friends with in HS had too many friends and always hurt my feelings by choosing them over me, lol). And I like to go out and do things, I just don't like going out just to stand around or pretend to have a good time. I love to shop and go to the movies but often do so alone. I can honestly saying that meeting new people and making friends is very easy for me, just not something I consider a "priority." Whereas I know EIEs and ESEs who consider it a MAJOR priority and yet don't seem to be ABLE to actually make friends with people. They're always going out to "brunch" or making plans with others whom they have no connection with.
    Could be a subtype difference. My EII sister has little interest in meeting new people. She's the Fi subtype. She's more interested in harmonising the relationships she already has than making new connections.

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