Something tells me this an integral part of SiTe vernacular
All the SiTe I've encounter always respond to my complaints about their communication with "I know, I know..." but never really seem to change. I keep going back and forth on why this is. It might be an immature thing, and maybe partly male thing, but all the SiTe I have encountered just can't seem to pick up the phone or call back reliably, and a lot of times they forget or plan over commitments. And they all will eventually call back with an apology and that there's no real excuse for their behavior... But then will do the same thing the next week
If I wasn't persistent when I see relationship potential, I would have given up on the first flake. But when I actually get a hold of them, all attention is on me, they want me around, tell me how much they love my company... And disappear for a couple of weeks
So confusing.
But somewhat in defense of the SiTe, I know what I'm demanding is most likely within the realm of their weaknesses. The bad thing is that they (and other types, I'm guessing at least the rest of the IP temperament) are forced to use what they are weak in because that's just how society/relationships work. So I guess it's not really fair to them, in that sense... Which is why I'm easily forgiving if I see the effort. Actually, I'm easily forgiving overall, the moment I see an SiTe calling, they are forgiven, because they are charming in their own way. I also notice that all SiTe like to make notice that I'm a "social butterfly," it's typically the first commentary I get other than being attractive (
) and so I wonder if there's a pressure to be social on the SiTe's part because of how NeFi easily manage their social life?
Sorry, rambled