I've been compared to Kristen Stewart, for example, by people who know me irl, yet in socionics she is my conflictor or superego. That shows how misleading V.I. can be if it's used on its own or given too much weight in typing.
I'm sure it would just take a more expert eye to see the difference between you and Kristen Stewart.
Just because somebody knows you doesn't mean they will have that expertise.