LostinDreams, I think you may be ILI-Ni. We tend to get a lot of IEIs on this forum, and not sure if people threw you in that type as you're a girl, but you seem to VI like an ILI and seem to come across that way in your writing, typical NT.
This sounds like typical NT-ness, pursuit of intellectual exchanges, etc. You also seem to lack Fe to me. I don't see any emotional expression from you. Things like "That was a nice compliment, thank you." seem very formal to me, seems like Te. I would expect an IEI to be much more expressive and to ideally connect with people more. But your style seems more formal and a bit dryer, more professional in a way, more like ILI.
Yes, your eyes seem to radiate Ni, that's why I think you're Ni-subtype ILI. And MBTI and socionics don't share an evenly direct correlation, but a fair amount of people can 'flip' the "J" and "P" in MBTI to find their socionics type. So INTJ in MBTI can become INTp in socionics, or ILI. In this case, I do believe this rule applies to you.
You're very beautiful (and I wish you were in my quadra, not a conflictor), but compare how you VI with some of these other ILIs:
Carrie-Anne Moss:
Lysette Anthony:
A young Kristin Scott Thomas: (I believe she is Te-subtype, so she doesn't like as much like you, but still a bit similar)