Ironic that you condemn me for unsolicited advice and yet try dishing some out to LostInDreams unwarranted, seemingly maliciously.
I think we've both had enough of talking to one another for one day, but I just want to point out that what you said is not true. Some people do get what they want in life. It takes hard work, but they usually end of getting what they want. If you're negative and miserable though, you will never see it, because you aren't looking for it. And who's to say LID *shouldn't* get what she wants? Of course she deserves it. You're really trying to be hurtful intentionally now on purpose.
It really makes me curious to know what happened to you. To get this argumentative and defensive and even malicious over a simple conversation. I don't know what's happened in your past, but there's no need to spread bleakness or misery purposely over others.
I know I've offered before to listen to you if you wanted to get something off your chest, and offered to talk in PMs, but you kindly referred to that as "gay". You seem very sensitive, and seem like you try hard to 'one-up' other guys sometimes. Honestly it makes me wonder if your dad wasn't there for you growing up.
My dad wasn't there for me much growing up either, and there were lingering feelings that I had to deal with to get past that and be happy again.
I don't know what's happened in your past, Park, but there's definitely something unresolved, that's causing you to lash out and project onto others. I've seen you get in fights now on the forum with woof, anndelise, etc. Many people. Simply if they say something that rubs you the wrong way or you think is inaccurate. It seems like an incredible waste of your mental energy and well-being to worry about that.
I suppose you'll reject it again, but I'll offer again because you never know, if you would like to talk in PM feel free to message me. If not, that's fine too. And enjoy your weekend - it's Saturday for crying out loud.