Guys and Girls,
When you see Kechey post you KNOW your assumptions and his don't match one on one or even at all. But in this case he asked something personal, along the lines of "I feel misfit with my environment" maybe trying to figure out what he's dealing with and trying to match it to his language is more constructive than yet again, trying to prove one way or another is right.
That said, it's kinda complicated by the cross-typing that occurs simultaniously. Could we get a thread where people can settle that dispute rather than in this one? The OP of interest to me, the rest is not (@hkkmr)
Regarding the OP @
Kenneth Chesney:
not sure this is an universal IEE problem, not all IEE's are in situations that are non-conductive to their happiness. Also not sure if it's solely IEE territory either; I think any type would feel at disease in an environment that is different than what it was "made" for. In that sense all types could theorethically be faced with this problem. If you construe the "situation" as "modern society" it kinda gets more specific a problem for the IEE. However, I'm sure that with the many subcomunities that exist in modern society there sould be ones that are IEE friendly.
I do follow KeChey in the line of reasoning that western modern society has certain standards, stereotypes, highlights, rollmodels etc that kinda deminish IEE's powers and or role. Male IEE's might suffer more than females because of slight differences in modern role devision.
Some in debt answers to your posts:
There is no lack of problems to be solved by IEE's. The thing is, those problems aren't sexy, hot, trending. The modern world values something consciously, but imho needs something else. underlying a lot of modern problems (inequality, depression, banking criseses etc) are a lot of problems that could be solved, or bettered by Delta influence. Sure, you might not get rich by doing that or getting a lot of attention, but you'll be lauered post mortum. I've always felt that, in most cases, delta's are always acknowledged AFTER THE FACT cuz the rest needs time to see what would have happened without them.
LOL Precize.... no... or yes. Not precize as deliniated, well demarked, systemized, factually accurate or logically provable. But I think that a lot of IEE thinking can be "precize" as in "spot on". I mean, I think you overestimate the role of precize thinking in this world. A lot of stuff doesn't happen due to logicallity or rationality or factual accuracy. Most things just "happen". Ask the bankers of the crisis and "it just happened", ask people about world poverty and "it just exists" there are logical explanations, but they are not sollutions. There is a lot that needs to be made sense of in a way that is NOT precize but more vague, if science will ever replace religion it needs to improve its story-teller skills since the complex whole of science is not adequate right now to solve existential questions, nor sooth people's losses nor provide equality or fairness. Sure, these are "fuzzy" subjects, but would you say they are "unimportant"? Maybe if you, as you said before, want to earn a lot of money, sure than they are outdated, but in terms of societies' needs they are essential. You're shortselling yourself!
Ok, there's the answer, the role of your type ("duties") don't match with your personal wishes. That is hard. But it's NOT an indicator that IEE as a type are unneccesary or outdated. By framing it as "duties" you (and AJ) make it sound as an external thing, something outside of you. I think it's more of a personal fit, aptitude wise. Society has needs, so do you, the one hand washes the other. If that works out than great, if it doesn't you're in a bad situation
Yes that sounds bad. Moving might be the only way to solve that. Also, I don't think an IEE and SLE would be a great match, maybe fun short term, very draining long term. There is a controlling aspect to the SLE's needs where IEE's are kinda...rebellious children that actually DON'T need there parents.
Sounds like a plan! Also, I think Ne creativity can work around Ti lack. What I mean is you should try to find something that actually values what you bring to the table enough to forgive you your lack of reliability Ti wise. The creative arts have a lot of that, some communities are less "structured" than others. I think finding a fit might be a bit harder for you as IEE but in no way impossible. Can it be your Ni is feeding you negative future impressions? Your OP sounded kinda despirited,
As for love fixing the lonelyness. As AJ already said, it's not the safest strategy. It MIGHT work, or it might you co-dependant on eachother. Maybe dualization is different/better but I'm fairly committed to not date unless i'm feeling happy alone. That way its just a nice addition to your life, not the centrum (not sure I might overstate the importance you place on it anyhow, in which case disregard it).
TLDR: Might not be type related, go get your Ne in gear and get out to a nice sunny place and woo the girls with your witty social skills!