Originally Posted by
Esaman
between this and your like of FDG's post I will guess what is behind it, based on having I have seen it before. You feel defensive and justified in applying Se and Fi pressure, "They are supposed to eat it up" reverting to "A person should deal with it, something is wrong with them."
Well apparently that is not how it is supposed to work for everyone, so no you are not justified the attitude that could possibly result in to your begrudgingly play house with your "ungrateful "loved ones"".