Quote Originally Posted by consentingadult View Post
As far as I'm concerned, things are okay as they are. She herself doesn't so much want to lose weight, but such is a precondition for getting rid of the joint aches and her wish of being able to dance again.
Dancing is an excellent motivator! Focus on the positive mental image. She's ruled out rheumatoid arthritis, right?

I'm not sure how an ILE would respond, but I picture one getting all sciencey about it. Maybe buying fitness gadgets like a Wii fit meter or whatever.