How does she say she'd like for you to help her?
How does she say she'd like for you to help her?
She doesn't. She's got it all figured out.Originally Posted by squirreltual
“I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking
then what's the problem? let her do her thing, if/when she decides it isn't working for her, then she'll try something else, maybe including being more receptive to your help.
Last edited by bg; 01-03-2014 at 08:38 PM.
Then unless you ease off on recommendations she may get really stubborn, feel insecure and struggle even more with abandoning her comfort foods. You can support (it's great you are willing) but giving recommendations where she doesn't want interference sounds like dodgy territory, even if you do have her best interests at heart.
Maybe if you are really struggling holding back, explain you have this personal need to feel you are being supportive in her life goals and how it fits in with your idea of togetherness? Then go from there and see if there are other ways you can contribute to her life (as they'll contribute to her overall motivation)? Idk if that makes sense but it seems like there's a possibility to compromise here and for both your needs to be met.
^ and that.
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