I have a similar boss, stuff irritates her, especially if "It isn't logical!" as she puts it, a kind of Dolores Umbridge if you will. She grates on people and is clumsy.. not necessarily in relationships (that too), but in how she makes grown men fear her lol and alienates most other people. Nobody wants to mess with her, because she'd argue and yell them into the ground. Not sure about her type tbh, she gets on my nerves as well, but I do most things it seems enough to her liking where she leaves me to deal with her job and goes on vacation for 3 weeks without issues. So I guess she trusts me and thinks I do a good job compared to other ppl. Initially the relationship started off bad as I immediately remarked that she'd be a very difficult person to work with and she did the same thing she does with other ppl... but my reaction to that kind of thing is to snap back and get aggressive as well, so it never worked on me as well as on other ppl. She does require me consulting with her on certain things and I have learned the pattern, to where I know exactly how to "deal with her".. to keep everything running smoothly.
I as a LSI am weirdly liked by almost everyone at the company.. :/ IF there is a problem they come to me for some reason to "fix it" or just to talk.. e_e the boss has developed this tendency as well. I noticed this when I made the VI for the forum as well, ppl said I'm likable or something to that degree. I personally noted this when it comes to kids and animals, they somehow instinctively gravitate towards my "likable presence" .. and all of this is kinda strange for me, because I never considered myself a sociable person.. but I make jokes and ppl laugh. I told this to Gulenko during the typing video too... very strange. In his improvement section he advised me to be even more social and acquire confidence in this region.. to get to LSI-C from LSI-H. Come to think of it ppl always seemed to like me >.> even as a kid, teachers as well.. wtf. Yhats how I found my cat lol, my brother and friends spotted the lil guy wandering the streets.. brought him inside. <.< and ofc the lil fucker took to me instantly.
So yeah.. I don't relate to being a dick.. basically..
... sometimes I'll have the "Fi PolR" moments, but that only happens if I consider that the other person deserves a callous response.. such as my boss sometimes does.