Actually though I think I see where she is coming from in terms of percieved heartlessness. It may be considered minimal by some typesbut huge by others and worse by some in certain types. For example I see a great deal of heart in ILI types (mostly) where many see nothing but metal and wires. However I genuinely see heartlessness (socio/phychopathy) in more SLE types than others.

I'm sure it applies differently to different individuals and not just the perceived stereotypes.



EDit: I have also been told on occaision that I am cold and heartless, by a couple of people who really meant it.