Quote Originally Posted by Hugo
So can anyone provide an explanation, considering that the supervisee should be feeling "pain".

Also, in a conflicting relationship, how does pain occur, for example between INTj and ESFp?

Why does this pain not occur between INTj and ESTp?

About the INTj-ESTp, for example, ESTps have Ti, so they will however provide logical motivations for their actions. This will upset less the INTj. On the contrary, ESFp are the most likely to take decision "just because they want to" (no offence meant here).