IEI - SLE duality being difficult to solidify (INFp & ESTp)

[Inguz]

I'm surprised I haven't actually responded to this yet.

IEI-Ni's aren't very interesting to me. They are low energy and their sense of humor is a little too cerebral for me to understand. I'm more into fart noises and throwing things at strangers.

IEI-Fe's, however, I've had entire conversations with using only fart noises and grunts etc.

With both types, I think the biggest issue I bump into is the fact that they don't want to get deep with me, and they spend so much damn time complimenting me and saying "oh I like that too, oh I like those things as well!" that I get frustrated and lose interest. They might as well just pick their nose and say nothing instead.

The other reason it didn't work out with IEI's of the opposite sex, for me, was because they've all flaked on our first date, and I'm very unapologetic with people who don't follow through on their word.

none of my relationships with IEI's, despite being a blast, have lasted more than 3 weeks. If I knew what I was doing wrong, i'd try to fix it. But I don't.

I think it just has to do with self esteem at this point. I used to be a loser.

You know, IEIs smell weakness as good as a shark smells blood in water. That you are looking for your dual to magically resolve all your emotional issues isn't particularly attractive, and indeed off-putting.

[Azure Flame]

You know, IEIs smell weakness as good as a shark smells blood in water. That you are looking for your dual to magically resolve all your emotional issues isn't particularly attractive, and indeed off-putting.

Heh... yeah...

if she were my dual she was probably really damn good at reading people.

[Inguz]

Heh... yeah...

if she were my dual she was probably really damn good at reading people.

Hang in there. Problems are meant to be solved.

[Azure Flame]

Hang in there. Problems are meant to be solved.

I'm perfectly fine now. But at the time I had self esteem issues and self awareness problems.

[Amber]

You know, IEIs smell weakness as good as a shark smells blood in water. That you are looking for your dual to magically resolve all your emotional issues isn't particularly attractive, and indeed off-putting.

lol are there perfectly emotionally healthy Sles? Without self-awareness problems ? I thought "emotional issues" come in the same package with Fi polr.

[Kill4Me]

lol are there perfectly emotionally healthy Sles? Without self-awareness problems ? I thought "emotional issues" come in the same package with Fi polr.

emotional health to you is not emotional health to somebody else.

[Amber]

emotional health to you is not emotional health to somebody else.

that's not a bad reply. It tastes like Ni .

[Kill4Me]

that's not a bad reply. It tastes like Ni .

Ni doesn't post here anymore. Interesting you'd bring him up.

[Amber]

Ni doesn't post here anymore. Interesting you'd bring him up.

wtf ur a IEI trying to joke like SLEs

[Kill4Me]

wtf ur a IEI trying to joke like SLEs

amusing you see me as your conflictor.