I liked DjArendee as well, thought he had very interesting observations. I was originally into mbti and his videos sent me towards socionics. All his stuff is gone on youtube I believe.
Wish I could see his ESI stuff.........."hitting on them and walking away......" is almost exactly my flirting style. Oddly they come around........very carefully, after you let them decide "they" want to initiate. I get bored if their walls are too high and they are too cautious and subtle about trying to close the distancel