ESI's, or anyone with experience observing. Do you feel like Fi polr's take what you say more personally than they should? Do you feel as if you have to hold your tongue around the person?
ESI's, or anyone with experience observing. Do you feel like Fi polr's take what you say more personally than they should? Do you feel as if you have to hold your tongue around the person?
Fi and Fe emotions are different; while Fi emotions help a person recognize their emotions; an Fe allows the person to experience emotions. An Fi represses expressing emotions.
Example:
I see you angry, I feel that anger in me, like feeling things go on twice in reality instead of what's just going on with you and you alone. So because I feel what you feel inside of me, it quiets me down, it makes me withdraw and not communicate with you any more. I'm better now that I can realize what goes on between the two types.
Within me, with the creation of you inside my brain, a MINI DJ lol, I try to use Ne to figure out how to get you to calm down because that's the desired state.
There's a lot of internal dialogue with characters created inside the mind of an Fi.
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
She doesn't like you Arendee, get over it.
Naughtiness
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
ESIs pretty much always try to hold their tongue not to offend people, excepting those very close to them, who are freely offended.
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
i don't know if they take what i say more personally than they should. if anything, maybe not as personally as i want them to. more commonly i take what they say more seriously than they intend it and i hold my tongue because i know that they don't actually mean it and it would be pointless to say anything. this is all based on pretty casual interactions, though, i can't recall any closer relationships.
Do you post a socionics-related thread every time something happens in your social life?
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
Someone else was talking to me about this the other day. Can you give any examples? I'm actually curious about what sort of thing she meant (she's also Fi-base) but forgot to ask. I have an easy time reading Fi-bases' general attitudes and body language but I have a hard time getting inside their heads.
Dandelion Fluff Upon a Spoon
Most things that are not based on empirism nor priori knowledge become less real when formed into words. However, the thing that FDG said was a fairly obvious joke, although it might have grain of truth.
And aren't you supposed to be on an experimental niceness spree or is it just for particular occasions?
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
I have finally socio typed my brother, he is ESI. (I used to think he was an SLI...) He is a total asshole - mainly because he has never even thought about examining his beliefs.
He is the Sensory Subtype. He is very brusque. The intertype relation between you and him would be called supervision, he is your supervisor. He will attempt to revise your ethical understanding.
His ethical values center upon ideas of the strong dominating the weak, that entropy is the sole causal force in the universe, that all people are fools and that they lose. A firm belief in Darwinism means that my brother often refers to rape as the highest and best expression of the moral right. It is not uncommon for him to talk about man-on-man rape, as a means of teaching the weak a lesson. Looking at Wikisocion, we can see that this is a form of his PoLR Ne --> to quote "The ESI dislikes evaluations of people's potential to engage in activities or develop skills in which they haven't had experience yet; above all he is uncomfortable with such discussions by other people regarding himself."
This means, that if he was in a TKD class with you, he would be doing two things. Firstly, he would be belittling you in his mind out of insecurity. HE would also think you are a super-jock and that you are genetically superior and have proven yourself by <gulp!> raping other men in the class! He would be sniveling and insecure, rather like a goblin. That is because he is "uncomfortable with other people" addressing his potential. He will be likely to either not make eye contact with you, or he will walk by you strutting with his chest out, thinking you are admiring him - and possibly do both within a few moments after seeing you.
Secondly, after he somehow acquires some TKD skill, this "nasty little goblin" will be unable to see any potential with the other TKD students, and he will attempt to project his insecurities onto them. He will believe that he has the right to judge the other students, and to screen out the weak. This is a moral imperative.
His supervision would consist of egging on any harassment occurring in the class, wanting YOU to be the one who rapes the retarded boy in the bathroom. He will hold you up as a symbol of Darwinian perfection and then egg you on to enforce your superiority by trying to get you to bully the other students. He cannot see people's potential because of his PoLR Ne.
He will want you to base your ethics on the total absence of the ability to see potential in others. He will want your Fi to be trapped in orbit around a total lack of Ne. He will want you to bully others.
Here is a video of him!
Socionics -
the16types.info
Yeah idunno about that bro
It's hardly just ESIs, other types will refrain from saying everything that's on their mind as to not offend the other person.
Watch any of the political debates if you want to see people holding their tongue in fear of saying too much. I don't see what's so type related about all of this.
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More Fecal Corpse, less Saberstorm (and his twin, Reuben).
I don't hold my tongue. but sometimes I do and Idk why. and it confuses me-- I'm I trying to detour drama? I'm I trying to be liked? Don't wanna waste my time? Is it not worth it?
and other times, "Fuck it, you KNOW what...... (insert my thoughts here)..."
though I think the biggest reason I may not voice an opinion is that I think I might be wrong. and look ridiculous if someone else's argument is more believable/ better thought-out than mine.
i dont wanna look stupid in front of my peeerrs
It would be kind of obvious and your fingers would get wet quickly.
Would you really like Fi PoLRs to see right down your throat? :/
I've known one SLE for 6 years, and maybe it's just because of the relationship that we have but I tell him what I think about him or subjects most of the time. I don't hold my tongue around him because I am comfortable.