Hello fellow Socionics enthusiasts. My name is Chris. I've been posting sporadically but I am pretty new around here and wanted to say hello.
Also, I was hoping for some input on some girl troubles I've had lately. I normally don't share, but yall seem supportive so what the hell.
So here goes: My girlfriend lives in Chile. I took a trip with her to Punto Arenas in 2011 and she didn't come back with me. She didn't bring a passport along for the trip, so she would have had trouble returning with me -- but her excuse was that she'd become fond of a group of penguins that had taken to her during the trip. She said she didn't have the heart to say goodbye so soon.
I haven't spoken to her in months. We're still Facebook official, but I'm thinking our relationship is probably a lost cause. Should I feel ashamed that I was dumped for fowl? I mean, i guess I sort of feel like the woman whose husband asks for a divorce because he has come out of the closet and wants to date other guys. Am I making any sense?? I mean, it would be one thing if she left me for some other guy, but she left me for a bunch of wild penguins. I shouldn't feel inadequate, if it's penguin loving she's after - I can't and wouldn't want to compete. But still, it just fucks with my head.
Guys and galls, but guys especially, what should i do? You'd think i would be over her by now, but if I'm honest with myself - I'm still totally obsessed and heartbroken. Goddamn penguins. I have started playing this game obsessively just to take out my rage. I should probably stop that. Just breeds negative energy.