Quote Originally Posted by hkkmr View Post
I've seen so many horrible insanely bad relationships in my life I would say don't go for either.
Same here.

Actually I've viewed a conflict marriage up close once (ESI and ILE) and it wasn't pretty to watch at all. It was an insanely uncomfortable experience being just in the car with this couple as they were driving me somewhere. Basically there would be all this negative tension, each time one said something using their base function the other would feel threatened and angry and respond in a really weird way, there would be a long charged silence, and then they'd suddenly and inorganically grab each other and try to very awkwardly caress. But I think it maybe takes years for it to get *that* bad... (?)

If you want a short-term negative whirlwind experience--hey, why not?